It’s like i am in a constant battle with my feelings. I try to push it away, so it can jus bottle up and attack me the next minute. I hate feeling like this.. because everytime i get irritated i isolate myself from everything. Its like dont even look at me, touch me, and try to talk to me type thing. Im so used too being alone while im copeing with my feelings, it awkward when im around people. I just need my own space to analyze the situation and gradually get over it. Becasuse it helps me understand..what im trying to get through. I dont need anyone else’s help, i want and also can pick myself up.

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Bad timing.

"I shoulda seen, you was trouble right from the starrrrt, taught me so many lessons. How not to mess with broken hearts, so many questions, when this began we was the perfect match, perhaps"

Use Your Head Not Your Heart

pdaeg:

One of the biggest mistakes people make when trying to find a way to win back love, is to follow their heart. While following your heart works well in many life situations, this isn’t one of them. Your are going to have to formulate a logical, rational plan, and your heart can’t do that. The bottom line is this: to win back your love, follow your head not your heart.

Why?

Your heart is probably telling you to drop everything in your life and to do everything possible to contact your lost love and make them hear you out until you convince them that you two should be together. Whether your love wants to hear you out or not, you are going to make them listen, and once they hear how much you miss them and need them, they will want to get back together.

What would your head tell you to do in this situation? More than likely, your head will tell you to back off, analyze the situation, take your time, and formulate a plan to win back your love. It is crucial that you follow your head, not your heart, and leave your ex alone. Don’t call them, don’t text them, don’t try to accidentally bump into them, and don’t interrogate their friends as to their activities. The last thing you want to do in this situation is to appear needy and obsessed. If your ex has any interest at all in getting back with you, then they are wondering what you are up to too. Let an air of mystery work for you.

If you usually rely on your ex to help you solve a problem or figure something out, then do it yourself. There is nothing better for a shot of self confidence than to do something or figure something out on your own, when you normally rely on someone else to do it for you. If you boost your self confidence, you will find yourself becoming calmer in life situations and you will realize that you can cope when things become stressful.

The way to win back love is call on rational action and calmness. If you follow your heart, you will do things that are illogical and will only serve to drive your lost love further away. Using your head and formulating a plan will allow you to pursue getting back with your man in a calm manner, and you will more than likely find success using this strategy.